Take a break.

I’m reading a book right now called Wonder Women: Sex, Power, and the Quest for Perfection by Deborah Spar. I’m maybe a third of the way through, and in it, Spar is mapping out the impact of the feminist movement and the sexual revolution on women today. When women were told (and it was legislated) that they could do and be anything, there was soon this external and internal expectation that they could have it all. And the question that I think Spar is posing is (a) can we really have it all? (b) should we be trying so hard to?

It makes me think about myself, and any of you readers – no matter your sex or gender identity – who are balancing a number of different things in your life. Trying to stay healthy – eating the right things and getting exercise in. Trying to care for/be with your family. Trying to do life things – explore, travel, play, see new things, try new hobbies, read, etc. Trying to maintain friendships. The list goes on.

Never mind work! Trying to do right by the donors. Trying to meet your year-end goals. Trying to manage interpersonal relationships, navigate office politics, be a good colleague…

We have a lot on our plates, personally and professionally, at this time of year especially. There’s a lot to juggle and more often than not we’re left feeling that we’ve dropped all the balls.

But while reading this book on the plane last night as I flew into Toronto from a client meeting in Ottawa, I said to myself: Take a break.

Our office closes between Christmas Eve and New Year’s Day, so I’ll get to take an actual break from work, which is key. But also take a break from the pressure you put on yourself, and from the crazy high expectations you set for yourself.

Take a break from feeling guilty or thinking you’ve failed if you don’t “have it all”.

Whatever your cause, by fundraising for it, you do a bit of good every day of the year.

And if you’re lucky enough to have a family to spend the holidays with, maybe celebrating the season with a big meal at some point in a warm house, with people you love… if that’s not having it all, what is?!

So I’m going to take my own advice and this will be my last post of 2016. I need to disconnect from blogging and tweeting for a little bit, to recharge and relax. To take a break.

And with that, I wish you all a wonderful holiday season!

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Written by Maeve Strathy

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My Christmas Wish for Fundraisers

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Today is the day.

Well, actually, more importantly, today is the last day.

The last day before my holiday from work until the New Year.

It has been a crazy December… and truthfully November was insane… and so was October…

You get the picture. I need a break.

And I’m willing to bet that you need a break, too.

Fundraisers work hard. All year long, but especially in the final quarter of the calendar year. It gets a little crazy.

So whether you’re lucky enough to have a long break away from work, or just a few statutory holidays, my Christmas wishes for you are these:

Take a real break. Unplug from your phone and computer as much as is humanly possible and really disconnect from your work. Give yourself a challenge; maybe it’s just Christmas Day that you spend entirely disconnected from work/electronic devices. Maybe it’s a few designated hours a day. Maybe you take a walk every night and leave your phone at home. Whatever it is – do it. It’s healthy, and you need it.

Indulge! That’s what the holidays are for! Drink that extra glass of egg nog, stay up late to marathon your guilty TV pleasure, eat too much cheese… whatever your vice is, indulge in it a little bit. We can’t do that all the time, but during the holidays it feels so good.

Be with those you love. Work too often keeps us away from family and friends, so take the days you have off and be fully present with your loved ones. Whether it’s your significant other, your kids, your nieces or nephews, your sisters or brothers, your grandparents, cousins, in-laws, or friend who’s in from out of town… take advantage of your time away from work and really be with the people you love.

And come back ready to work! The great thing about taking a real holiday, is coming back on the other side rejuvenated and ready to hit the ground running. I want the holiday in and of itself, but I also want to approach January with renewed energy. I know I can’t do that without some real rest and relaxation, so I’m committed to it.

And so I’m following my own advice. I’m going to disconnect from Twitter a bit, and I’m also going to skip my weekly blog post next week to give us all a rest. I’m going to have a spa day with my girlfriend Kate, colour in my new adult colouring book (so therapeutic), finish “The West Wing”, spoil my nephew, have drinks with my best friend Brian who lives in New York, and more!

So with that, Merry Christmas to those of you that celebrate it, Happy Holidays for anyone who doesn’t, and all the best for a very Happy New Year!

See you in 2016!

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End-of-Year Giving

My years so far in fundraising have taught me so much, and one thing they’ve taught me is that we use parts of the year as anchors for good solicitations.  Certain times of the year are better for fundraising than others; the summer, for instance, is a bit of a wash!  Fall and spring seem to be the best time of the year for direct mail appeals.  And then there’s December…

I thought this would be a timely discussion right now: end-of-year incentives to give.  The end of the calendar year seems to be a great anchor for good fundraising.  The question is: what’s your angle???

I sit on the alumni association at my alma mater and had the chance to proofread an end-of-year email blast for the Annual Giving office there.  Their angle was to encourage alumni to give NOW so that they can be receipted for this tax year.  Many donors plan their giving around tax-related things, so this is a worthwhile angle to use; this could really compel some people to give now rather than later.

Then, of course, I also work in an educational institution myself, where we sent out Christmas cards to our alumni encouraging giving with more of a “’tis the season” angle.

Both are meaningful angles; one is more practical than the other, perhaps, but they both strike some kind of chord and hopefully spur action.  Could you say that using the tax year as the incentive is kind of dry?  Well, you could… but you could also say that sending out Christmas cards is risky to those that don’t celebrate Christmas…

At the end of the day you have to make a thoughtful decision on how to make an ask in December, but I think we can all agree that with the spirit of giving in the air, it’s a good time to make the ask.

 

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And with that, dear readers, I am done posting for 2012.  It’s been a great year at What Gives Philanthropy, with engaging content, new guest blogger friends, and lots of interaction on the site, Twitter, and offline.  I hope you have a very enjoyable holiday season, and you’ll hear from me on Friday, January 4, 2013.  All the best!!!

 

Written by Maeve Strathy

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