Take a break.

I’m reading a book right now called Wonder Women: Sex, Power, and the Quest for Perfection by Deborah Spar. I’m maybe a third of the way through, and in it, Spar is mapping out the impact of the feminist movement and the sexual revolution on women today. When women were told (and it was legislated) that they could do and be anything, there was soon this external and internal expectation that they could have it all. And the question that I think Spar is posing is (a) can we really have it all? (b) should we be trying so hard to?

It makes me think about myself, and any of you readers – no matter your sex or gender identity – who are balancing a number of different things in your life. Trying to stay healthy – eating the right things and getting exercise in. Trying to care for/be with your family. Trying to do life things – explore, travel, play, see new things, try new hobbies, read, etc. Trying to maintain friendships. The list goes on.

Never mind work! Trying to do right by the donors. Trying to meet your year-end goals. Trying to manage interpersonal relationships, navigate office politics, be a good colleague…

We have a lot on our plates, personally and professionally, at this time of year especially. There’s a lot to juggle and more often than not we’re left feeling that we’ve dropped all the balls.

But while reading this book on the plane last night as I flew into Toronto from a client meeting in Ottawa, I said to myself: Take a break.

Our office closes between Christmas Eve and New Year’s Day, so I’ll get to take an actual break from work, which is key. But also take a break from the pressure you put on yourself, and from the crazy high expectations you set for yourself.

Take a break from feeling guilty or thinking you’ve failed if you don’t “have it all”.

Whatever your cause, by fundraising for it, you do a bit of good every day of the year.

And if you’re lucky enough to have a family to spend the holidays with, maybe celebrating the season with a big meal at some point in a warm house, with people you love… if that’s not having it all, what is?!

So I’m going to take my own advice and this will be my last post of 2016. I need to disconnect from blogging and tweeting for a little bit, to recharge and relax. To take a break.

And with that, I wish you all a wonderful holiday season!

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Written by Maeve Strathy

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4 tips to survive the year-end fundraising extravaganza

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OK – Why am I talking about year-end? It’s August!

Well because that’s how our weird world of fundraising works… at least for direct response.

I started presenting holiday campaign ideas to my clients back in July.

Literally Christmas in July. 

That’s what makes the world of direct response marketing agencies extra weird. Because of the lead time needed to do our work, we are generally thinking about campaigns three months in advance of when they drop.

Disadvantage for you, the fundraiser? I may be talking about it to you too early. Fair enough.

Advantage for you? Since I’m already in it, I can share some tips with you on how to survive it.

Here they are:

pace yourself.#1 – PACE YOURSELF — Don’t look at your solicitation schedule for September to December and start pulling your hair out! Take it one campaign at a time. Lay out your critical paths. Get the important approval dates in your calendar. This time of year is a marathon, not a sprint. Don’t lose your mind in one go, and don’t forget to hydrate.

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#2 – THINK ABOUT THE DONOR — Don’t lose sight of #donorlove when there are dollar signs in your eyes (because let’s face it – this is the time of year when the revenue pours in more than any other). When you’re looking at the potential creative for your holiday campaign, remind yourself “I am not my donors”. Think about what donors have responded to in the past. What’s inspired them? What’s filled them with the warm, fuzzy feelings of the giving season and moved them to impact your organization when there are so many other non-profits clamouring for their attention? Deliver that. I’m not saying don’t be innovative or try something new, but don’t do it for your sake. Do it for the donors.

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#3 – SELF-CARE — I know we all give the idea of self-care lip service, but seriously. It’s August and I’m already feeling the first bit of burn-out. You need to check in with yourself and make sure you’re giving yourself what you need. Are you getting enough sleep? Are you putting good stuff into your body (and I don’t mean wine and coffee, although there’s a time and place for that, too). Are you finding time to be active? A 30-minute walk (ideally outside) would do you a lot of good. Are you taking time to do things that bring you joy? Cooking? Reading? A favourite TV show? A bath! I know we can’t spare as much time as usual for ourselves amidst all the work, but maybe carve out… an hour a day? Two hours? For you! Because if you aren’t happy and healthy, it’s going to be a much longer season.

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#4 – KEEP YOUR EYE ON THE PRIZE — #DonorLove is absolutely crucial to what we do. But let’s admit it: to allow our amazing organizations to do their amazing work, we need funding. And the year-end time period brings in the majority of our funding for the year, so that’s a huge driver of why we work so hard and have so much output at this time. When you’re tearing your hair out and wondering why you do this, look at last year’s results from September-December. Calculate what percentage of the total year’s revenue it was. Write that percentage or dollar amount on a post-it and let it motivate you when the sheer love of the work doesn’t do it. That impact is worth hustling for.

Good luck!

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My Christmas Wish for Fundraisers

my christmas WISH FOR FUNDRAISERS

Today is the day.

Well, actually, more importantly, today is the last day.

The last day before my holiday from work until the New Year.

It has been a crazy December… and truthfully November was insane… and so was October…

You get the picture. I need a break.

And I’m willing to bet that you need a break, too.

Fundraisers work hard. All year long, but especially in the final quarter of the calendar year. It gets a little crazy.

So whether you’re lucky enough to have a long break away from work, or just a few statutory holidays, my Christmas wishes for you are these:

Take a real break. Unplug from your phone and computer as much as is humanly possible and really disconnect from your work. Give yourself a challenge; maybe it’s just Christmas Day that you spend entirely disconnected from work/electronic devices. Maybe it’s a few designated hours a day. Maybe you take a walk every night and leave your phone at home. Whatever it is – do it. It’s healthy, and you need it.

Indulge! That’s what the holidays are for! Drink that extra glass of egg nog, stay up late to marathon your guilty TV pleasure, eat too much cheese… whatever your vice is, indulge in it a little bit. We can’t do that all the time, but during the holidays it feels so good.

Be with those you love. Work too often keeps us away from family and friends, so take the days you have off and be fully present with your loved ones. Whether it’s your significant other, your kids, your nieces or nephews, your sisters or brothers, your grandparents, cousins, in-laws, or friend who’s in from out of town… take advantage of your time away from work and really be with the people you love.

And come back ready to work! The great thing about taking a real holiday, is coming back on the other side rejuvenated and ready to hit the ground running. I want the holiday in and of itself, but I also want to approach January with renewed energy. I know I can’t do that without some real rest and relaxation, so I’m committed to it.

And so I’m following my own advice. I’m going to disconnect from Twitter a bit, and I’m also going to skip my weekly blog post next week to give us all a rest. I’m going to have a spa day with my girlfriend Kate, colour in my new adult colouring book (so therapeutic), finish “The West Wing”, spoil my nephew, have drinks with my best friend Brian who lives in New York, and more!

So with that, Merry Christmas to those of you that celebrate it, Happy Holidays for anyone who doesn’t, and all the best for a very Happy New Year!

See you in 2016!

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